Minutes of Motivation for Self Improvement
We sometimes get so caught up in the needs of others that we forget about the most important person to please, yourself. I know the word selfish carries a negative connotation but it’s not always a bad thing. You have to reclaim some of your time, energy and brain capacity for your own needs, your own goals and your own wants. Many of us struggle with saying no because we don’t want to appear insensitive. Take a moment to think about what you’ll have left to offer if you always say yes to everything and everyone. What about you? Please don’t think that I’m telling you that you should not be open to giving with no expectation of a return or benefit. You can still be a nice and accommodating person while being a bit selfish.
Be selfish occasionally, just for you. Take that time to recharge and focus on what will improve your life. You don’t have to give and give without ever being able to regroup and consider your own thoughts, your finances, your aspirations. You don’t have to feel guilty for wanting to make you happy. Think about what you deserve and ask yourself if being a little bit selfish will add some more value to your life. When it comes to family and friends we sometimes get completely lost in helping; we get lost in being the shoulder to cry on and making ourselves available to them. Even if you can’t lean on anyone else, you should have the energy to lean on yourself.
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